The Klap

Okay so I had to give someone really special a klap the other day ... not physically but by just saying some really harsh things. It had to be done .....

I felt so bad afterwards, and I still do ... I knew he was hurting because he was holding on to something and he needed to let go ... so now he is really angry ... which is good in a way .... anger can be a really good emotion when you are stuck .... it can help at least get you out of desperation.

Sometimes when you try and help people in a candy coated sort of way ... it can help... you can slowly get them to move forward and become unstuck ... but sometimes when they are stuck in an endless whirlpool they need a klap to get out of it.

Anyway ... I just wanted to share that because i feel kak .... maybe I need a klap as well ... any volunteers??